How to be more forgiving?
Remember when someone was only nice towards you in an odd awkward contexts to you? You responded, and certain contexts might seem sad for them when you rethought of your response(s)? You then thought about what your reactions & spoken-words 24/7 for days & nights of which contexts that person understood you in, and you felt bad/depressed because that person was only being caring [You intended well too].
It’s possible another person might wrongly imply something to you/others/me also or the contexts seem questionable. You should forgive incase they regret saying what they never suggests via contexts (I definitely did). This is one of my new ways of forgiving people (I’m possibly wrong at times too. I’m extremely sensitive and I overthink whenever).
If they’re 100% mean with evil intents first on purpose first. They’re who are, so I would simply/eventually ignore them, forget about them, stay away from them, etc., if we’re 100% incompatible. People only change themselves anyway. It is what is it.