I never force change to anyone. Motivation is personal beliefs. Personal beliefs could only be changed by the person himself/herself. Personal inspirations are possibly guidances (Except if he/her mindlessly 100% wants to copy the inspirational person’s thoughts, I suggest not to. Rising issues are the evidences they never understood such wisdom). Ultimately, him/her make the final decision. No one needs a partner/anyone that’s causing extra life’s issues via evil intents first on purpose first. Example: He didn’t decided/cared for his significant other to happily live nor was he grateful/respectful by involving her in intolerable scandal(s). It was her self-respecting decisions to leave him in the past. It was her decisions to live happily ever after. She was the one that decided to maturely move on. Life itself is full of inevitable lessons [Recall those math formulas/equations you got wrong few times prior those were correct? No one was in sight]. Anyone [Females too] causing any issues for anyone first with unacceptable intents first on purpose first? Yous only did just that; intentionally complicating/ruining people’s lives via evil intents first on purpose first. Yous never made anyone stronger. They did that themselves. FYI: You’re hurting yourself by hurting those that genuinely care about you.
P.S. In any families, anyone cheating is meaningless if you ask me. If you miss/love/truest-love someone contexts, solely seek her, and don’t use others/things. You can seek others when all are formally consented of course, or you’re single. That’s understandable. Hearts, minds, bodies, souls, etc., are meant to be genuinely/truly loved, whether they know it or not.